The world is spinning with crazy speed. Everyone sometimes feels sick and tired of this furious tempo, of all the problems and rush of the life. We do our best to make our dreams come true; we become exhausted trying to catch the fortune, to gain money and to make a carrier. Rushing, we often forget about our relatives, friends, our health and life itself. We live on a go, without recognizing that we miss the most important things in the world love and health.
Love cannot exist without sexual life and sexual health. It is a pity to realize that permanent strain makes us lose the latter. Nowadays it refers especially often to men, who become unable to fulfill sexual activity because of erectile dysfunction or impotence.
It seems impotence knows no boundaries: it wounds men in spite of their age. Furthermore, men above forty usually suffer from impotence due to physical reasons, while young people (under forty) are more psychologically vulnerable (it often pertains young homosexual men confused and anxious about their orientation).
Very often impotence is a result of psychological exhaustion, caused by frequent nervous breakdowns, short temperedness, constant strain, low self-esteem or inferiority complex. Grief, fatigue and anxiety also provoke problems with erection.
Stress, fear and terror are almost always erection-killers, producing the so-called fight or flight syndrome, when blood is sent by the central nervous system out of the abdomen to arms and legs for self-defense and escape. As a result, there is no blood left for the inflow to the penis to produce an erection.
Among the other causes of impotence is a depression. Nowadays about one person of eight suffers it. Depression makes men feel melancholy, anxiety, anger. As we know, these feelings never come along with love, sex, therefore with erection either. It is worthy to mention that drugs used to treat depression cause sexual side effects in 10% of patients who take them.
Impotence can also arise when a man loses confidence in his erections and his ability for sexual performance. Sometimes it is a result of a new sexual situation (place, time), new partner, etc. In this case the partner is the one who can help, raising the mans self-esteem, showing him that he is doing everything right.
The point of healthy relationships is of great importance. The partners must understand and like each other, as well as wish the same things. If a man loses his erection due to the disliking of the partner, the psychologist or sexologist may help. If there exists love but no erection, the open communication with a partner can become the way out. Try to find the right time and words to talk about the intercourse, the technique, your wishes and desires. Refresh your love with new experience. And remember: there is hardly a situation in the world with no way out.
Ivanna
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